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"We Were Blessed to have Met Them": Parents Of Premature Triplets Find Meaning in the Unthinkable"We don't know why we didn't get to keep them, but for whatever reason, God allowed them to be taken from us. We have faith that they are now in heaven..."
"Now, don't scream," he said in measured tones. "One. Two. Three... Triplets!" Jason and Marie Taylor, both in their 30s, had married only four months ago, in May 2012. They were eager to start a family from the moment they fell in love, but they decided to do their relationship "God's way", saving sex till both had promised the other 'I do'. It was an ongoing joke in the extended family that if Marie was going to "catch up" with the number of children her married sisters had, then she and Jason would have to have twins and triplets. One month after wedding bells, the couple was delighted to discover that they were pregnant. Now at 11 weeks, they were excited to see their 'little one' - or little ones, as it turned out—through the medical magic of ultrasound. Jason and Marie were ecstatic at the news of triplets. Jason 'high-fived' Marie, who was lying on the observation bed. "We were just really, really excited," Jason told LifeSiteNews in an exclusive interview from their home last week. The couple's next immediate thought was: "Oh my goodness, what are we going to do with so many babies... we only have a limited number of arms." The ultrasound revealed that there were two girls and a boy. The proud parents named them Bernadette, Christine, and Adam. At a subsequent visit, doctors spoke to the parents about "selective reduction," but the couple would hear none of it. Even though Marie was a trained nurse and knew that doctors would ask this question, it stung her to hear someone so unconcernedly offer to "kill one or two of my children." "That was really upsetting to us both since we so eagerly anticipated our children," said Jason. The couple began to prepare themselves and their house for the new arrivals, expected in February 2013. Three little cribs were purchased and tenderly placed in the upstairs bedroom. Marie's belly grew, and grew, and grew some more. Every night before falling asleep beside his wife, Jason would lean over and talk to his unborn children. "Hey Adam, hey Bernadette, hey Christina, I'm looking forward to meeting you. I love you guys!" Before leaving for work he would say to them: "Look after your mommy!" The unthinkable Despite Marie's health struggles, a November 13 ultrasound revealed that Marie and her babies were doing quite well. At 22 weeks, Marie was measuring more like a pregnant woman at 35 weeks. But the day after the ultrasound, Marie started experiencing "sharp little pains" across her abdomen that became increasingly regular. That evening, the couple decided to head for the hospital to see what was going on. Arriving at the hospital, the couple was incredulous when doctors told Marie that she was four centimeters dilated and that labour had begun. The young couple clung to the hope that doctors could do something to prevent labour from developing further while still keeping the babies safe. But labour progressed further. Doctors broke the news that the babies were on their way. At 22 weeks, the tiny triplets didn't have much of a chance. Not only was their gestational development delayed because they were triplets, but their little lungs hadn't developed enough for them to breathe. As a nurse, Marie knew that ventilation efforts on underdeveloped lungs could explode the lungs, causing immediate death. Doctors told the parents that when born, the babies would not benefit from medical intervention. As Jason stood by his wife's side, witnessing the unthinkable nightmare that was unfolding before his eyes, he suddenly realized that he had been giving all his attention to Marie. He realized that his unborn children were probably just as frightened by what was happening as he and Marie were. The young father leaned over and chokingly comforted his children with the loving words he had spoken so often. "Hey, I love you guys...I'm looking forward to meeting you..." The parents prepared to greet their children and spend as much time with them as they could. The triplets were born in the early hours of November 15, each weighing between 360 to 450 grams, less than a pound each. "They came out, full of life, and moving around," said Jason. "I kept on hoping that they might be the only triplets born at 22 weeks to ever survive, but they faded quickly." Despite the deep sorrow of having to let their children go, the parents were nonetheless taken aback by how perfectly formed their little children were, with perfect little noses, tiny toes, dainty fingers and finger nails, and most of all, beautifully lovable faces. "We held them. We had time to study them, and we really felt like we got to know them a bit," Jason said.
For Marie, it was an impossible mix of emotions: "We just held the babies. We cried. We looked at them. We studied them. We talked to them. We baptized them. And... we loved them." Bernadette, Adam, and Christine were loved, respected, and cherished for every moment of their short four-hour lives. Searching for meaning Marie's father came to the rescue: "Of course we must give them a proper funeral," he said. "They lived a life, just like anybody else. They were born, they were baptized, they lived, and they died." Marie's brother built a little wooden casket with three crosses on the top. The children who had grown, lived, and died together, would now be laid in their final resting place together. Jeff Gunnarson of Campaign Life Coalition attended the funeral service. He told LifeSiteNews that he was "deeply moved" to hear Jason's graveside testimony about the life of his children, adding that there was hardly a dry eye in the crowd. "Jason explained to the people gathered that his children's lives were precious," he said. "He mentioned his daughters' dainty fingernails and the beautiful curve of his boy's tiny chin. He said that even at such a young age, each child already showed distinct personality traits. He conveyed that each had its own unique unrepeatable life." "Believe me, anyone in that crowd with a hint of indifference to the value of a baby's life at 22-weeks would have left that service re-thinking a pro-choice position. Jason conveyed just how wonderfully-made are these little human children of God. He was able to see in this serious, sad, yet profound moment of burying his beloved children a pro-life ray of hope that brought tears to our eyes and made us grateful to have witnessed so great a love." Click here to read more from LifeSiteNews.
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